Life of Neko in the Presence of Sai Baba's Love

Yohooo all.......

I'm back writing today..... kekekeke... just read Rana's and Tiva's Blog... makes me feel like bloggin.... so..... here I am... goin to read Qi's and Fen's blog after this.....

I'm not a person who likes to go around readin blog.... but I like to link my friend blogs in my listing (Rana... I've just added yours in my list ...XD) to allow me to have easy access reading thiers once in a while... to find out how they are recently.... I only read the last posting... lol I'm lazy....

Today when I took train to work.... as usual reading comic.... lolx.. something which I think is very serious happen... though it's not my concern and it won't affect me....

Int. Sence ::::: On MRT ::::
I was reading comic... Suddenly a man sittin on the seats digonally across my seat starts scolding in mandrian：“叫你不要弄到人家了，为什么不听？！” and slapped alot times on a little boy head (his son, about 9 yr old boy ), which make loud slapping sound... I bet it hurts alot....
Everyone were in shocked... and keep looking at the father and son.... the man reading newspaper sitting beside the son was in big shock.... I stared at the father... I think he realise that... cos I gave him another stare before droppin off the train.... XD I'm very good at staring at people... which is bad I think... cos sometimes people think I'm staring at them when I'm not.... okok... I admit... I look very fierce jus like my dad... big big eyes...!!!

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I discuss this incident with my colleuages.... I'm shocked to hear them saying... It's ok to hit the child on the head... at 1st I thought they were joking... but they say no they are serious... their thinking is...some kids nowadays are very naughty... hard to control.... beating works to control them. I told them I feel so sad to hear them say that. In my heart I was thinking....selfish comment they made..... if the boy is their son, I don't think they will do that.

I agree that nowadays alot of kids are very naughty... and hard to control... beating them in a reasonable manner is ok... but not on the head!!! But I disagree with them about hitting on the head is ok... It's very serious it can cos deafness if the hit was too harsh and physcologically it affect the child badly when he was scolded and beaten in public where alot of people are looking.
No matter how naughty a child is, we should never hit them on the head or other vital area. If the kids uses his legs to kick someone... maybe jus a few hit on the legs and explain to him/her that it's not right to do that, a child should understand. Provided the parents must be stern to the child while beating and explaining to show the child it's serious... some parents... haiz... beating and explaining in jokingly manner... Why would I listen to you? I think... LOLX

My colleuage A says.... next time I'm sure to dote my child alot... I think she wants to say I'll spoilt my child.... I told her NO!... If it's wrong... means wrong... I must tell my child.... to correct him/her. That's my parents' ways of teaching... my parents beat us alot when we are young, of cos we are naughty at that time... when we are 9 yrs old onwards, they don't do that anymore... they would reason out with us..... telling us what is right and wrong.... I like the way my parents teach us... lolx ... reason out..... muahahahha.... but sometimes they do still nagged us alot... of cos sometimes we just can't reason out........walking away is the best solution....XD

Woo... Later I'm meeting Fen for dinner... Fav hang out Kopitiam in TPY... Wooo Yummy Rojak!!!! I'm goin to discuss this incident with her again...... lolx

My topic of the day!!!
Do leave me your comment about the incident I've mention above... Let's discuss it....!!!

Ok!!! That's all for today.....!!! See ya (",)y

+++++ Most Parents Loves Their Child, But Must Love Them In The Right Way ++++

Neko's Heart 7/06/2006 05:22:00 PM