Life of Neko in the Presence of Sai Baba's Love

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I've been thinkin real hard what topic to talk about in my 88th post..... hmm... nothin came to my mind.... or maybe there's alot of things in mind to talk about but..... dunno which one to talk about.... hmmm...... kekekeke....... I'll talk about my views of my parents...

I'm a simple girl... living a simple life for 24years 157days 10hr and 43mins.
How simple?
Hmm... like most of the people out there in this world, I have a loving family, parents who dotes alot on me and my siblings , 2 lovely different character sisters and a cute but fierce pet dog + lots of colourful fishes at home.

=== My Daddy ===
My daddy is a tall and big size man with a big round tummy. Is he fat? hmmm quite fat... hahaha... but what makes him look fat is his big tummy.....
I remembered asking my mum some questions.
Me," Mummy... why is Daddy's tummy so big?"
Mummy," There's a big baby inside Daddy's tummy.... not born yet..."
Dad & Mum starts laughing out loud.
After quite some times, I asked my mum again
Me," When is daddy's baby coming out?"
Mummy laughed and told me," Man can't give birth to baby only woman gives birth to baby."
That's how I learn man can't give birth only woman can.

Since young, whoever saw me and my dad together..... everyone will say this line to my dad " This daughter of yours look exactly like you." Ok... I'll look handsome If I'm a boy.... XD
I've Big and fierce eyes like my dad.... lolx and I guess other then this... my overall look like him too, except my nose which looks like my mummy's nose.... kekekekkeke.....

When young, to me daddy is a quiet person..... who loves fishing and watching wrestling. As my dad owned a business with his partners, I rarely have the to chance to stick to my dad when I'm young. I only see my daddy early in the morning when he goes to work and late at night around 10pm+ when he came home from work. Only sunday, my dad will come home early in the afternoon from work.

A few years ago, my dad left his company and became semi-retired. He found a new hobby, golfing... lolx every weekend he will spend his time golfing with his friends. I'm very happy to see my dad enjoying his life...... he looks so much happier then a few years ago when he's still in his company. He became more chatty at home and spend more time with my mum and us of course. My dad dote on us alot alot.... he will try to give the best things to us and try to fulfill us with whatever we want if he can afford.

I love the way my dad pat my head and rub my hair... though my hair might get messy... but I feel so love and doted by my dad.... I remember once... I was too busy with school work and I don't really have the chance to talk or see my dad... one weekend, I finally saw my dad after a long time.... My dad never say anything to me.. he just pat on my head and rub my hair.... my tears start rolling in my eyes.... from this little gesture... I can feel that my dad miss me alot... hahahahahha..... I always tell my friends... a pat on a shoulder or a little hug is more than a thousand words.... cos I've experienced it myself..... kekekekke....

DADDY, I LOVE YOU!!!!!

== My Mummy ==
My mummy is a slim and small size woman.... kekeke..... She looks even smaller in size when she stands beside my dad.... hahahahhaha.... I love to see my dad and mum walking together from their back, looks so sweet and nice.... lolx.. just like manga lovers..... The guy is tall while the gal is only to the guy shoulder height.... kekekkekeke.... one thing different is my dad looks fat.... hahahahhaha...... Ok, back to my mum again. My mum is a super nice and kind-hearted lady..... very helpful and treat everyone very nice.... she's a very gentle lady, her gesture and the way she speaks is very gentle....hahahahha......almost everyone say so... hahahahahha.
I spend most of my time with my mum since I'm young... she's a full time house wife.... she dotes on us alot and take really good care of us... but of cos when we are naughty she would canned us XD. My mummy is a very supportive person, same goes to my dad....hahahaha.... How supportive? hmmm... she'll let us learn whatever we want which is good for us and we are interested, even if she has to spend lesser on herself or other things. She'll be supportive of our decision or ideas if it's not something bad or evil..... kekekekkeke.....

There's alot of things my mummy said make a very big impact in my life. I'll list 2 of them though there's alot.... kekekeke.....

Impact 1
My mum always says," Girls must have knowledge, study hard, learn more things and skills so we can depend and survive on ourselves in this world..."
To me... my mummy is a woman who lives with alot of pride and self-respect. My mum is born in a poor family, so poor till can't afford to pay for her school fees. She loves to read alot and she loves to go school, but she has no choice but to quit school at primary 3 or 4....and start working to help out in her family income. She always says,"I envy those people who are able to go school..." If my mum is born in a better family, she would be a very knowledgeable and powerful woman... I guess... wahahahahhaha......XD
Since young, I've heard alot of my friends saying their mother told them, " Girls don't have to study so much, when grow up marry a good man and be housewife, that's a woman's life."
I was so shocked to hear that....... REALLY SHOCKED! It's so different from what my mum always told me..... I start telling my friends what my mum taught me, trying to change my friends thinking...... lolx... but I forgot everyone has their own mummy.... kekekekeke....

Impact 2
I'm not born pretty.... XD as to compare to my sisters.... who were pretty and cute when young..... I'm usually not well-liked by relatives or parents friends... maybe I'm weird, ugly or what... till now I also dunno...
To my relative eyes... I'm the naughty girl... who will bully people... hahaha... but I don't remeber bullying people.....hmm? Once I was accused of bullying one of my cousin who is 2 years junior than me..... but... hmmm... I didn't do anything.... haiz.... Everytime when my uncle brings my cousins out to play... I'm usually not allowed to go, even my mum forbid me to go...their reasons are I'm too young to follow... but my cousins who were even younger than me was allowed to go? Why is that so? I feel very outcasted..... so sad..... I guess because I'm not pretty or cute......
Once my mum and I talk about my childhood life, I asked my mum why did she forbid me to join them?
Mum says," I see that they don't really like you... if you follow them, they might not take care of you. What if you lost your way or anything happen?"
This is the way mum protect me, I guess... hahahaha.......

Any adults out there.... Never Never say anything bad or hurtful to a child even if he/she is young. Children understand and remember....!!! XD
Another time was at my mum's friend house.... my mum need to go somewhere urgent... so she put us at her friend Auntie M's house for awhile. We sat at the living room waiting for my mum to fetch us home.... a neighbour of Auntie M came over. Neighbour Auntie X saw us and asked Auntie M whose children are these?
Auntie M replied," XXXXX's daughters..... she need to go some where so I helped her to take care awhile."
Neighbour Auntie X," Oh.... 1st time I see her 3 daughters.... who is eldest? "
As me and my elder sister age difference is only 2 years... sometimes people can't really tell the difference who's elder. Auntie M introduce us to Neighbour Auntie X... and one shocking sentence I never expect an elder would say, made me very sad....even till now when I think of it... it still hurts..... (;_;)
Neighbour Auntie X," Her eldest and youngest daughters are pretty.... but the 2nd daughter so ugly....." she pointed at me and say.... I was shocked and feel so hurt....
After this incident, I went to ask my mum.
Me," Mummy, why am I the only one born ugly? Why are sisters born pretty? "
I can see that my mum was a little shocked from my question. I guess she's sad that I asked her this question... hahahahaha.... she asked me why did I say that? So I told her the incident.
Can see that mum is quite sad about the incident too.... hahaha... who would like to hear people saying their child is ugly?

Mum,"面由心生. A person's looks will will be defined by the heart. No matter how good looking a man or woman is... if his/her gesture or speech is evil or bad hearted... he/she will tends to have an evil look and will starts to look ugly....., so if you wan to be pretty... you must start with your heart, as long as your heart is good no matter how ugly you look, to other people you'll still be pretty."
Though I've heard alot of other people saying this alot of times, but it's my mum who really made this sentence a big impact for me to realise how pretty a person will be when he/she has a good heart....I agree totally to what she says even till now... cos I've some friends who I think were pretty and handsome... but when you starts to realise their action, gestures or even the speech they made... were bad/evil, it makes them starts to turn ugly...real ugly....

I don't know if I'm consider a good person? hahahaha... but at least my concious is clear to say that I'm not a evil or bad person.... Wahahaahhaha...

I love to hug my mum even till now... I always hug my mum... kekekeke.... I'm not a very touchy person.... but I love to hug my mum... when I'm very stressed up or very sad... I'll hug my mum when she's in bed sleeping in the middle of the night before I go to sleep... normally I sleep later then she does... hahahaha..... like I've mention above a pat on a shoulder or a little hug is more than a thousand words.... kekekeke

MUMMY, I LOVE YOU!!!!

This's a super long post, it took me about 2 days to write this post.... wahahhahaha..... actually I wanted to write about my 2 sisters too...but I think it will be too long and will bored the person who reads this posting. So I'll write about my 2 sisters in my 99th post.... wahahaha...... and my 100th posting will be about the 2 doggies in my life.... hahahahaha......

I'll stop here for today... if you get to read this sentence here....

" Thank you very much for the patience to read my blog."
I'll blog again soon.... kekekekekke (^^)y

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Neko's Heart 3/25/2007 10:03:00 AM